From Bouquets To Pictures To Chocolate...How The Kayanjas
Changed The Way Kwanjula Gifts Were Given.
At a sumptuous ceremony conducted at their Kawuku house
over the weekend, Robert Kayanja Jr., the senior pastor of Rubaga Miracle
Center, introduced his fiancée Marlena Gailis.
There wasn't the customary ostentatious exchange of heaps
of expensive gifts as is generally the case in modern-day kwanjula gatherings,
despite the event likely costing several hundred million shillings and having
some of the wealthiest people in attendance.
For instance, Kayanja Jr. received an old train ticket
from his first visit to her family in exchange for Gailis giving him a portrait
of himself. The Kayanjas gave the newlyweds a Bible, while the bridegroom's
relatives gave them flowers.
"I Believe I Also Saw Some Chocolate Among The
Presents. After The Wedding, Pastor Kayanja Addressed The Media And Remarked,
"There Was Nothing Pricey.
"We desired a change from the contemporary
kwanjulas, which have lost their distinctive features. By the day of the
wedding, everyone is broke, and people arrive with futos gifts.
The man of God suggested that family on both sides
concentrate on pooling finances to provide the new spouse with where to start
rather than on lavish presents and high pride costs.
In addition, Kayanja provided an explanation for the
introduction's location, which marked a significant departure from accepted
Buganda customs.
According to Buganda lore, the woman's family should
typically host the man's family, but Kayanja claims they decided to do it the
other way around while taking the background of the in-laws into consideration.
Because this is not a part of the in-laws' culture,
Kayanja indicated that the introduction could not take place in Latvia.
Accordingly, it was agreed to invite Gailis' family to
Kampala so they can meet the family their child will marry into.
"On their side, there is no kwanjula (introduction),
kuhingira (giveaway), or any of our traditions here; so we thought that they
needed to get that experience, which she (Gailis) will need when she comes to
start a family here," added Kayanja.
It would be her responsibility to travel there and learn
about the other side's culture, including how they make food, dress, and
interact with in-laws.
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